How to meet your soulmate

In terms of ritual, I believe two things need to happen before you meet your soulmate.

The woman has to have completely stopped looking for their soul mate.  She has to be in a place where she is completely happy being by herself.  Truly.

The man has to be in a place where he has made a decision to consciously look for his soul mate.  He is in a place where he is ready for her.

The two happen together for each pair.  E.g. The woman might start to feel so drenched in her own bliss, feel life is great and she doesn't need anything on the outside to make her feel that way.  She is open to the idea she will be feeling amazing on her own.

The man would come to a place exactly at that time that he wants someone special in his life to share his life with, but wants someone who was truly happy and content within themselves.

That is the place I would try to get to.